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Hire a best man speech writer

What sets our team of best man and maid-oof-honor speechwriters apart: We take the time to make a custom speech, not just a string of one-liners.

A custom best man speech that speaks to the heart

More people are afraid of public speaking than are afraid of dying. Fortunately, fewer people have to speak in public than have to die…and if you are one of those who has to speak in public, we can help.

With a carefully crafted speech, you can proceed to deliver it with confidence. Our writers make sure to understand your audience, your relationship to the bride and groom and to their families, your common history and the mood you want to set.

Anybody can string together one-liners. If that’s all you want, you don’t need us. But if you want to deliver a personal and memorable speech that speaks to the heart, we can craft one for you. We are not above throwing in a one-liner or two, but that is just window-dressing.

Here is what we do…

  1. First we ask you a series of questions to get the basic information from you, what to include, what to avoid, etc.
  2. Then we draft your speech.
  3. Next we send you the draft to seek your feedback.
  4. After that, we make any alterations you might need.

Praise for our speech writers

As you might imagine, our clients are never left speechless. Here are a few nice things they have to say our professional speech writers. (Read more testimonials here.)

Thanks for helping to organize my thoughts and put them on paper. … Thanks again for all your help. While I had an idea for what I wanted to express, your help in getting it structured was a big help.

I am really pleased with how this speech is going and have been reviewing it with my brother. There are some very small changes I am going to make and then I will send it back to you for a final review. I’m very pleased with many of the subtle jokes you made.

Well I have to thank you again and the speech was fantastic. As you can imagine the flow was great and must admit I did a pretty good job delivering our speech. I had it pretty well memorized so it did enable me to add in little events which made the audience chuckle. Both Kuno and his fiancée were very delighted and touched by the words.

I’m very happy that I decided to go with a “writer” service and very happy that you wrote the words.

Thank you again and should I need writing expertise in the future you can be assured I will be calling upon your services.


The conference overall exceeding even my expectations. Great energy, great value.

You will have some fantastic words to say – both at your next speech, and when it’s over.

5 stars
5 stars – 5 reviews

What goes into a best man speech?

Here are some of the things that can make a remarkable best man speech:

  • A description of the personalities of the bride and groom (how do they handle being teased; what is important to them as far as hobbies, religion, values, etc.)
  • How the couple met, and any role you , the best man, had in getting them together or failing to keep them apart  🙂
  • Whatever other anecdotes you want to tell about a) the groom, b) the couple, c) the groom’s family, friends or other (if appropriate)
  • If there is any special wish you have for them
  • Any advice you wish to offer a) the groom, b) the bride, c) the couple, d) the world (e.g.: look out world, this couple is going to blaze an incredible trail in medicine or anthropology or music)
  • Anything else specific about the couple
  • The location, e.g. “church basement in Winchester, Ontario” or “beach house in Acapulco, Mexico”
  • Would you like a poem (inspiring) or a limerick (humorous)?
  • The tone of the speech – a bestman speech should have a fair dose of sincerity and a fair dose of humor, as well as some inspiration, but you might want to indicate if you want it to lean more one way or the other
  • The length of the speech in minutes
  • How you came to be best man, if there is even a slight story behind that
  • Photos or other images you would like to project on a screen, and whatever story might go along with them  (this can be a BIG boost to a best man speech if you or the couple’s parents have kept “blackmail photos” since they were kids).  We can prepare the bulk of the speech to accompany a slide show, or we can make it a small section of the speech, as you wish.

Many people write their own best man speeches, but others want help. Maybe you know what you want to say, but you don’t know how. That’s where our professional speech writers come in. That’s where we can help.

We don’t just do best man speeches and we don’t just do weddings. Our speechwriting experience goes deeper than that, and in fact so does our writing experience.

Want to hire a professional speechwriter?

If you are looking for a creative and effective freelance speech writer, contact The Happy Guy Marketing for a free quote. The more details you provide, the better we can serve you. Get your free quote – fill in the form now.